Very interesting.
Got this piece from a friend, thot it would be nice to share with sex lifers. The rate at which marriages collapse now is assuming a social symbol status in our society.
In few years time, people will be throwing divorce parties and invite friends and well-wishers to celebrate their divorce anniversaries; they will choose aso-ebi, hire a hall and popular musicians. Even a qu
estion like "So when are you getting divorced?" will become common place.
If u know u can't handle the weight and pressures of marriage, please remain single.
If u don't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until u do.
If u are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person please remain single.
If u know u can't be faithful, remain single.
If u can't endure insults from one another, pls remain single.
If u can't forgive one another's wrongs, pls remain single.
If u can't place ur spouse above every other human being, pls remain single!
Don't get married out of desperation.
If u desire a successful home, but ur choice of friends are those whose marriages have collapsed. Its simple - they'll make u drink from their poisoned chalice. Once that happens, ur marriage is in a process of dying a slow death. Be very mindful of where you go for advice.
Guys, if u know u can't put ur wife ahead ur ego, pls remain single till u mature. There's no way u can abandon the care of ur family at the expense of your lifestyle. They are your priority and everything else including u comes last. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the spiritual leader, the role model - u are not a deity. So don't expect to be worshipped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible.
Ladies, if u know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage so you're not turned to a punch bag!
If u know u can't stand being corrected, please remain single.
Ladies check ur domestic scorecard - if ur score is zero, please stay in ur parents' house! Ladies and gentlemen, marriage isn't, & won't be a bed of roses understand the dynamics....
If u know u can't handle the weight and pressures of marriage, please remain single.
If u don't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until u do.
If u are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person please remain single.
If u know u can't be faithful, remain single.
If u can't endure insults from one another, pls remain single.
If u can't forgive one another's wrongs, pls remain single.
If u can't place ur spouse above every other human being, pls remain single!
Don't get married out of desperation.
If u desire a successful home, but ur choice of friends are those whose marriages have collapsed. Its simple - they'll make u drink from their poisoned chalice. Once that happens, ur marriage is in a process of dying a slow death. Be very mindful of where you go for advice.
Guys, if u know u can't put ur wife ahead ur ego, pls remain single till u mature. There's no way u can abandon the care of ur family at the expense of your lifestyle. They are your priority and everything else including u comes last. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the spiritual leader, the role model - u are not a deity. So don't expect to be worshipped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible.
Ladies, if u know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage so you're not turned to a punch bag!
If u know u can't stand being corrected, please remain single.
Ladies check ur domestic scorecard - if ur score is zero, please stay in ur parents' house! Ladies and gentlemen, marriage isn't, & won't be a bed of roses understand the dynamics....
really true abeg tell them
ReplyDeletewell is better to be sure about what you are really going into be trying to do so cheers
ReplyDeleteme i go marry joor i know send anybody
ReplyDeleteme i go marry joor i know send anybody
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