Very interesting.
Got this piece from a friend, thot it would be nice to share with sex lifers. The rate at which marriages collapse now is assuming a social symbol status in our society.
In few years time, people will be throwing divorce parties and invite friends and well-wishers to celebrate their divorce anniversaries; they will choose aso-ebi, hire a hall and popular musicians. Even a qu
estion like "So when are you getting divorced?" will become common place.
If u know u can't handle the weight and pressures of marriage, please remain single.
If u don't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until u do.
If u are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person please remain single.
If u know u can't be faithful, remain single.
If u can't endure insults from one another, pls remain single.
If u can't forgive one another's wrongs, pls remain single.
If u can't place ur spouse above every other human being, pls remain single!
Don't get married out of desperation.
If u desire a successful home, but ur choice of friends are those whose marriages have collapsed. Its simple - they'll make u drink from their poisoned chalice. Once that happens, ur marriage is in a process of dying a slow death. Be very mindful of where you go for advice.
Guys, if u know u can't put ur wife ahead ur ego, pls remain single till u mature. There's no way u can abandon the care of ur family at the expense of your lifestyle. They are your priority and everything else including u comes last. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the spiritual leader, the role model - u are not a deity. So don't expect to be worshipped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible.
Ladies, if u know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage so you're not turned to a punch bag!
If u know u can't stand being corrected, please remain single.
Ladies check ur domestic scorecard - if ur score is zero, please stay in ur parents' house! Ladies and gentlemen, marriage isn't, & won't be a bed of roses understand the dynamics....
If u know u can't handle the weight and pressures of marriage, please remain single.
If u don't know what marriage is all about, please remain single until u do.
If u are getting married because of the things u desire or hope to gain from the other person please remain single.
If u know u can't be faithful, remain single.
If u can't endure insults from one another, pls remain single.
If u can't forgive one another's wrongs, pls remain single.
If u can't place ur spouse above every other human being, pls remain single!
Don't get married out of desperation.
If u desire a successful home, but ur choice of friends are those whose marriages have collapsed. Its simple - they'll make u drink from their poisoned chalice. Once that happens, ur marriage is in a process of dying a slow death. Be very mindful of where you go for advice.
Guys, if u know u can't put ur wife ahead ur ego, pls remain single till u mature. There's no way u can abandon the care of ur family at the expense of your lifestyle. They are your priority and everything else including u comes last. You are the teacher, the guide, the bodyguard, the spiritual leader, the role model - u are not a deity. So don't expect to be worshipped. You need respect, earn it by being responsible.
Ladies, if u know you can't be submissive please don't go into marriage so you're not turned to a punch bag!
If u know u can't stand being corrected, please remain single.
Ladies check ur domestic scorecard - if ur score is zero, please stay in ur parents' house! Ladies and gentlemen, marriage isn't, & won't be a bed of roses understand the dynamics....
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