Monday, 15 October 2012
From Hollywood Life
Our source tells us that Karrueche and Chris have only spoken so they can facilitate her move out of his place, a move that is nearly over.
“…he don’t f**k with her like that right now and [he's] not [talking] with her either – other than set up times for her to come get her s**t but that was last week. She still got a few things at the crib, but a lot of her s**t [is] already out,” our source says.What kind of gangster source is this one? Haha!
The incident occurred at about 3.30 p.m. on the Osun River Bridge on the Oke Gada Road. It was learnt that the woman, who hailed from Ede in Osun, delivered the twins 11 days ago.
An eyewitness account revealed that shortly before Abdurazaq jumped into the river, she reportedly prayed and gave alms to beggars around the bridge head.
One of the eyewitnesses, who identified himself as Selia Mojeed, said that people did not know that Abdurazaq wanted to commit suicide, else they would have prevented her from doing so.
Although efforts to speak with her husband failed, it was said that the woman had no outstanding problems with her spouse, family or neighbours before the incident.
Efforts by sympathisers and passersby to rescue the woman failed as she was said to have drowned immediately.
Shortly after the incident, her husband who also attempted to jump into the river was prevented from doing so by onlookers.
The police later whisked away the deceased’s husband and placed him under safe custody at the Police “A” Division in Ede.
Contacted, the state Police Public Relations Officer, Mrs Folasade Odoro, confirmed the incident.
Source: NAN
The gunmen also embarked on a house to house search in the area, shooting and stabbing people to death.
The Kaduna state police commissioner confirmed the incident and said troops have been deployed to the area.Villagers said at least 20 bodies were counted after the attack.
Erm, no I didn't carry the initial story...but it's all over the net if you care to listen to the leaked convo...:-) Now continue to see his new video for his new single - Afefe
Tuesday, 9 October 2012
BARELY 24 hours to the expiration of the window of opportunity to appeal against the International court of Justice, ICJ, ruling that ceded the oil-rich Bakassi Peninsula to Cameroon in October 10, 2002, there are influx of stern looking men believed to be security operatives from Cameroon
The increased presence of security operatives from Cameroon according to Nigerian Sources at the island was to ensure that the country takes absolute control of the area following Nigeria’s failure to appeal against the judgment or call for a review.click to continue reading
The Sources also claimed that in the past few weeks, Nigerian indigenes resident at the disputed island have not been able to reach at their relations in Nigeria through phone calls, while the Cameroon government had infiltrated families of Nigerians at the area causing division among them.
A highly placed Bakassi Local Government Council official who spoke with us on condition of anonymity alleged that some Nigerians doing business at the Peninsula had complained of harassment by the Cameroon security agents.
The official also said that there had been many strange faces suspected to be security personnel coming in groups in preparation of taking complete control of the place.
Meanwhile, President of Academic Staff Union of Universities, Dr. Nasir Isa has said that Nigeria made a mistake in handling the matter and that the federal government also made a great mistake by committing herself to hand over Bakassi to Cameroon, adding that children in Bakassi have the right to decide where to belong.
Also commenting over the federal government refusal to appeal against the ICJ ruling, the governorship candidate on the platform of Hope Democratic Party, HDP, in the February 25, 2012 elections in Cross River State, Dr. Theo Onyuku said that the tragedy, the pains and the subterfuge of the loss of Bakassi Peninsula to Cameroon following an unenforceable ICJ ruling will forever hunt the Nigeria nation.
Onyuku who is a medical consultant turned politician alleged that, “The ignoble, irresponsible, deceitful and self-serving roles of former President Olusegun Obasanjo, the former Cross River State governor, Mr. Donald Duke and all the elected and appointed leaders of Cross River extraction will hunt them to their graves.
“In 2006, before the first phase of hand over of Bakassi to Cameroon, we warned against the dire consequences of ceding the territory to Cameroon without recourse to the national assembly, the dire security and socio-economic implications, but the PDP leaders in the state branded us as faceless opposition group.
“Today they are now shouting. Have we forgotten that the self-acclaimed Mama Bakassi was the special adviser President Obasanjo on national assembly, what did she do for the, she suddenly became blind, deaf and dumb.
“She was active in the seat of power, she did nothing and betrayed the Bakassi people to secure her job and today she is protesting, what an apostate.
”Ex Governor Duke traded off the island for a selfish presidential ambition. Why, Obasanjo ceded Bakassi unconstitutionally in obedience to a useless Green Tree Agreement because he wanted international support for his third term gambit and noble prize for peace,” he alleged.
The Nigerian Army has commenced a manhunt for those involved in the brutal killing of four Uniport undergraduate students in Aluu community.
And students have been advised not to take laws into their hands not to aggravate the current situation. What do you suggest should be done to this people?
Watch the video here Viewer Description -Video of the 4 Uniport Students Burnt Alive for Stealling Phones and Laptops
Tekana Elkannah who was among the 4 roasted alive was buried in the forest by his family. Because he was beaten and burnt beyond recognition and according to their custom they won’t be able to bury him in town.
A family member also spoke. “Yes, he’s been buried.” The family member confirmed, “We recovered his body and we stitched it the best as we could… It’s shocking the amount of brutality he and those boys endured. His body was beaten beyond repair, but yes, we’ve buried him.
We’re from Kalio Ama in Okirika Local Government Area, and in our custom, if you have endured the brutality, injuries and violence Elkannah endured, your body cannot be buried in town. So our 19-yr old boy was taken across and deep into the forest to be buried.” May his soul rest in peace. Listen to Song by Two of the Uniport Students Fllod & Ugonna – Ain’t No Love In The City
Llyod’s parents , Mrs. Jane Toku, the mother of Lloyd, one of the four undergraduates of the University of Port Harcourt that were lynched at Aluu community in Rivers State, says her son’s death will always haunt her.
She also expressed shock that the crowd could watch how her son and his friends were gruesomely murdered. Jane spoke with Punch correspondent amid tears on Monday in Port Harcourt.
Jane said, “When we got there, one of them was still breathing. He was gasping for breath, but the crowd…they were all there watching while my baby (Lloyd) was butchered. Come to my area and ask questions about my child; the child I trained.
“Penultimate Sunday, we went to church, Salvation Ministry; that is where he worshiped We all went together for the second service. He stayed back for the remaining service. When he came back, he started preparing to go to school. I can still see him as I talk to you.
“He brought out a book; ‘How Faith Works’ by David Ibiyomie and he said ‘Mummy, read this book and you will know what faith is all about. By the time I come back on Friday, you will tell me what faith is all about.’
“Ever since, I have been moving around with that book, so that I could read and not get him angry when he comes back from school and ask me about what I learnt from the book.
“Thursday was his daddy’s birthday. He (Lloyd) called him and wished him happy birthday. When his daddy asked him if he would be coming home to celebrate the birthday with the family, he (Lloyd) promised to be back on Friday after lectures.
“But on Friday morning, we got the call that my son was being beaten. How can I erase the fact that my son was lynched from my mind? He studied very hard and got admission into the university.”
Meanwhile, the community was like a ghost town on Monday as the inhabitants of the area left their homes to avoid being arrested by security agents.
Shops, restaurants and mini supermarkets were also shut by their owners who felt students of the university were planning a reprisal on the community.
Four students were on Friday morning lynched by suspected members of the community for allegedly stealing laptops and mobile phones.
Students living off campus in the community were not left out in the rush to leave the community to avoid the wrath of security agents, who had been patrolling the area.
The police had since the killing of the four students arrested 13 suspects from Omuokiri village in Aluu, including the village head.
Immediate past President of UNIPORT Student’s Union, Mr. Rhino Owhorkire, told our correspondent that students had shelved the idea of any reprisal.
Owhorkire vowed not to rest until those behind the killings were brought to book.
Lloyd’s parents appealed to government not to allow those involved in the gruesome murder of their child and his friends go scot-free.
Lloyd Toku was a 200 level undergraduate of Civil Engineering at the university before he was killed.
Speaking with PUNCH Metro on Monday, Lloyd’s father, Mr. Mike Toku, insisted that his son was neither a thief nor a cult member.
Toku, who is the Assistant Director, Presentation, Radio Rivers and a father of three male children, narrated how he got a distress call that his son was being beaten up by a mob.
He said, “On Friday morning at about 7am, we got a distress call that our son was being beaten alongside two of his friends. So, we quickly rushed down. Initially, it was very difficult for us to locate the place, but by the grace of God, we were able to locate the place.
“By the time we got there, we saw a mammoth crowd with a few Joint Task Force members there. So, we pulled through the crowd and when I tried to move closer, the JTF operatives told me to move back. Later on, one of my cousins supported me and we moved on again and explained to them (JTF operatives).
“I move close to the four corpses on the ground and I discovered that one of them was my son. We were also able to identify the other three as his friends. We took the corpses to UPTH to ascertain whether they were still alive. A doctor came out, examined them and said they were all dead. My son has never stolen before,” Toku explained amid tears.
He called on government not to allow those behind the gruesome murder of his son and his friends to go unpunished.
“All I want is for justice to be done. That’s all. Whoever carried out that dastardly act should be brought to book. That is all I want. I have not got assurance from anybody that justice will be done. I am yet to get that (assurance). Nobody has talked to us yet.
Also, Toku’s wife, Mrs. Jane Toku, stated that the crowd was watching while his son was being butchered to death.
They just violently wasted talented boys. Here is a song by victims Lloyd (Big L) and Ugonna (Tipsy). It is called Heart…It talks about how wicked the word is – It says no love in the city. A really good rap song.
They sounded like American rap artists. It was played by a radio station in Ph this afternoon as they where commenting on what happened. The boys where meant to have a show this week in Uniport.
The music is great. Ironically the lyrics talked of doomed hateful society, full of hate, crime and death. Chai, we just lost some overwhelmingly handsome talented Igbo boys to heartless beasts in human form.click below to view video
The school has declared a seven-day mourning, suspending all school activities including its students’ union week which would have commenced yesterday.
Speaking to newsmen at the main campus of the institution, the Vice Chancellor of the University, Prof. Joseph Ajienka, flanked by other principal officers, described the killing of the students as a horrendous crime, stressing that the university is totally against such act of jungle justice.
He confirmed that three of the deceased persons were students of the university. They were identified as Biringa Lordson, a year two Theatre Arts student; Ugonna Obuzor, a year two Geology student and Mike Toku, a year two Civil Engineering student.
Although, the fourth person killed alongside the others was identified as Tekena Erikena, the university said efforts were still on to confirm if he was its student.
The VC however dispelled allegations that students of the university were mobilizing to invade Omokere-Aluu community on a reprisal attack emphasizing that lawlessness will not be condoned.
Prof. Ajienka commiserated with the bereaved families and friends while calling on security operatives to fish out those behind the unfortunate incident.
Monday, 8 October 2012
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"I actually met Dino through Lola Alao sometime March or early April and honestly speaking I was in need of help and Lola Alao promised she would introduce me to someone who could help. The person turned out to be Dino. I actually visited him in Abuja. He was actually forthcoming and helpful. I was not the only one involved then but he took particular interest in me. We got to know each other and at a point I was scared because he was all over me. Overtime, he showed me he meant well and we became good friends.
“Somehow, one thing led to the other and we started dating. He appeared nice, loving and showed me a lot of affection. He was quite frequent in my Lagos house. I remember when he came to Lagos for the birthday of Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, I went to pick him from the airport to my house. We were an item and it was known to a couple of our close friends in the industry. Shortly after, I travelled to Canada and it was while in Canada with my colleagues, Foluke Daramola and Moji Olaiya, that I felt the symptoms of pregnancy. It started with the usual morning sickness. I could not believe it. It was painful because I could not participate in all the programmes lined up for us in Canada. I can remember that it was Moji Olaiya that went to buy the pregnancy kit that later confirmed I was pregnant. Immediately, I called Dino in Nigeria and shared the news with him. He was excited about it and he told me he was looking forward to seeing me in Lagos soon. When I returned, he received me with joy and on an occasion he took me to his hometown, Kabba in Kogi State. He told me he wanted to marry me. He was so nice to me.” The romance heightened over time, they became closer than ever but somehow there was a dark cloud lurking in their stars.
“Sometime in May, I went to London, came back and he called and said again that he actually wanted a big society wedding for me but since his parents are clerics and the rules and regulation of their church frowns at pregnant brides he would want me to get rid of the pregnancy. I was shocked. I wept uncontrollably all night. Later, I called him nd told him since that’s his new position, I will advise him to go to his parents with another and marry. I’m not keen about society wedding but love to keep the pregnancy and have my baby. He did not allow me to say my mind when he dropped the phone. I called him severally but he refused to pick my calls. I sent emissaries, friends to him but he refused to listen. His complaint, according to my friends who took the courage to talk him was that I was rude. You can imagine, Dino refused to understand; he failed to know that I’m no longer a baby. This is my joy, joy unspeakable to me, something I have been praying for and he wanted me to be funny with it. It’s ridiculous.” Since June , Bisi told E24-7 MAGAZINE, Dino, never showed, he never came.
“He stopped picking my calls. But each time I tried to call him with another mobile number, he would pick the call but as soon as he finds out I’m the one on the phone he will drop it. I have not wronged Dino, I have only chosen to do what is right to me but he sees it differently. I’m no longer a kid. It’s painful that such action is coming from a man who claims he loves the masses, the oppressed people of this country and he is oppressing me. My fate is in the hands of God and He will see me through. I have not been working to earn any money but I have found favour before God and a couple of my friends. I know I’m not alone in this. God is with me.”
Asked if Lola Alao had intervened, the Bisi Omologbalogba fame actress said: “ I spoke with her; I pleaded with her to talk to Dino. I was shocked when she told me that Dino said he was not responsible for the pregnancy. I took her up on this. I asked her if she believed him. I found it insulting that at my age I wouldn’t know who is responsible for my pregnancy? But then, I’m not surprised because I have been fed with a lot of information that Lola and Dino are dating now.”other mobile number, he would pick the call but as soon as he finds out I’m the one on the phone he will drop it. I have not wronged Dino, I have only chosen to do what is right to me but he sees it differently. I’m no longer a kid. It’s painful that such action is coming from a man who claims he loves the masses, the oppressed people of this country and he is oppressing me. My fate is in the hands of God and He will see me through. I have not been working to earn any money but I have found favour before God and a couple of my friends. I know I’m not alone in this. God is with me.”
Meanwhile, Dino Melaye, has dismissed claims by Bisi that he’s responsible for her pregnancy, saying it is an “Africa Magic story”.
"I actually met Dino through Lola Alao sometime March or early April and honestly speaking I was in need of help and Lola Alao promised she would introduce me to someone who could help. The person turned out to be Dino. I actually visited him in Abuja. He was actually forthcoming and helpful. I was not the only one involved then but he took particular interest in me. We got to know each other and at a point I was scared because he was all over me. Overtime, he showed me he meant well and we became good friends.
“Somehow, one thing led to the other and we started dating. He appeared nice, loving and showed me a lot of affection. He was quite frequent in my Lagos house. I remember when he came to Lagos for the birthday of Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, I went to pick him from the airport to my house. We were an item and it was known to a couple of our close friends in the industry. Shortly after, I travelled to Canada and it was while in Canada with my colleagues, Foluke Daramola and Moji Olaiya, that I felt the symptoms of pregnancy. It started with the usual morning sickness. I could not believe it. It was painful because I could not participate in all the programmes lined up for us in Canada. I can remember that it was Moji Olaiya that went to buy the pregnancy kit that later confirmed I was pregnant. Immediately, I called Dino in Nigeria and shared the news with him. He was excited about it and he told me he was looking forward to seeing me in Lagos soon. When I returned, he received me with joy and on an occasion he took me to his hometown, Kabba in Kogi State. He told me he wanted to marry me. He was so nice to me.” The romance heightened over time, they became closer than ever but somehow there was a dark cloud lurking in their stars.
“Sometime in May, I went to London, came back and he called and said again that he actually wanted a big society wedding for me but since his parents are clerics and the rules and regulation of their church frowns at pregnant brides he would want me to get rid of the pregnancy. I was shocked. I wept uncontrollably all night. Later, I called him nd told him since that’s his new position, I will advise him to go to his parents with another and marry. I’m not keen about society wedding but love to keep the pregnancy and have my baby. He did not allow me to say my mind when he dropped the phone. I called him severally but he refused to pick my calls. I sent emissaries, friends to him but he refused to listen. His complaint, according to my friends who took the courage to talk him was that I was rude. You can imagine, Dino refused to understand; he failed to know that I’m no longer a baby. This is my joy, joy unspeakable to me, something I have been praying for and he wanted me to be funny with it. It’s ridiculous.” Since June , Bisi told E24-7 MAGAZINE, Dino, never showed, he never came.
“He stopped picking my calls. But each time I tried to call him with another mobile number, he would pick the call but as soon as he finds out I’m the one on the phone he will drop it. I have not wronged Dino, I have only chosen to do what is right to me but he sees it differently. I’m no longer a kid. It’s painful that such action is coming from a man who claims he loves the masses, the oppressed people of this country and he is oppressing me. My fate is in the hands of God and He will see me through. I have not been working to earn any money but I have found favour before God and a couple of my friends. I know I’m not alone in this. God is with me.”
Asked if Lola Alao had intervened, the Bisi Omologbalogba fame actress said: “ I spoke with her; I pleaded with her to talk to Dino. I was shocked when she told me that Dino said he was not responsible for the pregnancy. I took her up on this. I asked her if she believed him. I found it insulting that at my age I wouldn’t know who is responsible for my pregnancy? But then, I’m not surprised because I have been fed with a lot of information that Lola and Dino are dating now.”other mobile number, he would pick the call but as soon as he finds out I’m the one on the phone he will drop it. I have not wronged Dino, I have only chosen to do what is right to me but he sees it differently. I’m no longer a kid. It’s painful that such action is coming from a man who claims he loves the masses, the oppressed people of this country and he is oppressing me. My fate is in the hands of God and He will see me through. I have not been working to earn any money but I have found favour before God and a couple of my friends. I know I’m not alone in this. God is with me.”
Meanwhile, Dino Melaye, has dismissed claims by Bisi that he’s responsible for her pregnancy, saying it is an “Africa Magic story”.
Linda is the woman in the area fada and that's who you all will be meeting on the music talent show soon to premier
Meanwhile, Tiwa Savage will not be returning as a host, as she's busy working on her debut album.
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| Ibim Semenitari is the Rivers State Commissioner for Information |
Meanwhile, the deputy registrar of University of Port Harcourt, Williams Modi, said the school will issue a statement once they get all the facts - I.e, the true identities of the victims and what actually transpired on the day of the reported incident.
Also, I heard that residents of the community have started fleeing the area to avoid being arrested. Please continue...
Before I broke the story on Friday, I spoke with three different UNIPORT students, one of them my cousin (he was the one who sent the story to me) and they all said the same thing. That the Aluu community said they killed these boys because they stole. I asked the students what the victims supposedly stole, and they said - the people who killed them said they stole phones and laptops. That was why I made that my headline...
But since then, we've heard different versions of what happened on that early Friday morning...different versions! Below is another one...which suggests the boys didn't steal the phones and laptop but took it by force...
At this point, I really don't care what these boys did. Not that I condone any form of crime, but there's no excuse for what the Aluu community did to these boys. No excuse! Even people that have been prosecuted for a crime and condemned to die are shown some kind of respect. These boys were treated like animals. Maybe even worse. Animals we kill for consumption are not treated like this. So we must all rise and condemn this act. This is the land that will be home to our children and children's children.
The right to life is a fundamental right!
#JusticeforAluu4
National President of the Actors Guild of Nigeria, Segun Arinze visited the ailing Enebeli Elebuwa in the hospital last week and commented that he is seriously concerned about current state of the thespian health.
Arinze has thus mobilized his colleagues in the A-list cadre to raise funds for proper treatment and welfare of the actor.
“It is sad. I shed tears when I visited him in the hospital. I pray that God will also intervene and heal him because we still need his wealth of experience in the industry and Nigeria at large,” said Arinze.
It was gathered that the Elebuwa sickness has created more tension and fear among Nollywood practitioners, considering the rate at which prominent members have died in the last few months.
Enebeli Elebuwa hails from Upkane in Otagunu local government area of Delta State. His dad died when he was 10 years old, so he left his home town when he was only 12 to stay with someone in Lagos.
He is a retired civil servant and has been in the acting profession for the past 30 years. The first soap in which he appeared was Mirror In The Sun. He played in the first three pilot episodes and eventually worked as an assistant producer/director in the soap and has since been part of many productions including Heaven’s Gate produced by Zik Okafor.
However, there is now an different angle to the story. A friend to an eyewitness, has come out to correct some of the facts that were carried in the reports. Tweeting with the handle @Penny_sugababe, Peniel who apparently stays in Port Harcourt, started by expressing her anger over the fact that many people attached sentiments in their reactions.
“Gosh! So because the criminals that were killed in PH today were cute, people are calling it injustice…Smh.. Nigerians sha”
She eventually recounted the story, as told by her friend.
“For people who need the real gist of what happened in UNIPORT, my friend was an eyewitness, nd she even has a part of the video on her fone.
The people in Aluu community complained dey had been terrorized my robbers lately and it was almost a routine so dey set up a vigilante grp
“At about 5am this morning, they got word dat dey were some robbers in d area and they made sure all the exits were blocked while dey waited. They were caught and dragged to d community head who told dem to confess and dey gave 3 different stories that didn’t even match. They were actually 5, one of them escaped! Dey got info about someone that had some money, it wasn’t laptops and phones please
“Ugonna’s (the cutest) sister said she actually gave him money yesterday to go back home. PS: he’s an only son with 4 sisters.
“Anyways, people actually begged for their lives, but the community boys were bent on dealing with dem! These boys had machetes and axes sef. The community boys started beating then with dia own machetes and other weapons, until dey gave up! Police came afterwards for the bodies
“Llyod (one of the criminals) father works with Radio rivers and even announced on air today that his son is “no thief” and he has never seen
“They chose a wrong path, and dey knew the end…… Did dey expect an angry mob to pat dem on dia backs and give then ice-cream? Oh please
“Good night folks, pray for your loved ones, never to join a wrong crowd or be misguided. The fate of those boys…… It is well.” Do you think this guys did what they clams happened?
The church is said to be located somewhere in Okota area of Lagos.
Segun and wife, Julie
In a text message,Segun Arinze allegedly sent to the pastor, he is practically begging the man of God to intervene in his marriage spiritually as his new wife, Julie is about to call it a quit.
Though our source refused to comment further on the text message, she admitted that the said man of God has been a long standing friend of Segun Arinze.
The AGN president was once married to actress Anne Njemanze. Their marriage which produced a daughter crumbled few years ago. He also has another child from a previous relationship.
Only in February, this year, Segun Arinze new wife gave birth to a bouncing baby boy and the couple’s joy knew no bounds. One only hopes that this is another handiwork of mischief makers, or what do you think?
I am sure by now some of you have watched the video of the brutal beating death of the four University of Port Harcourt students – Ugonna, Ilyod, Tekana and Chidiaka, by the indigenes of Aluu community in Port Harcourt. If you haven’t watched the video, please don’t bother. It’s the most gruesome and the most unbelievable thing I have ever seen. It will break your heart.
Now I’m convinced that we have lost our souls as humans. The youths of this nation did this. People’s children. Beaten till they were unconscious, then set on fire. They said they were robbers…were they really? Even if they were, is this how to treat another human being? Are we this barbaric in this country?
Two of them were even cousins. Ugonna and IIyod. Both of them were upcoming rappers. Big L was the winner of a popular Rap Contest show on SilverbirdTV PH called ‘Turb Show’. I have listened to some of his songs…I’m devastated.
Cousins, IIyod aka Big L and Ugonna
We the youths of this country demand that the River State Government look into this matter and arrest everyone in that video. Except the government want to tell us that they have given the youths of Aluu power to arrest and kill indiscriminately.
The Rivers government MUST make a scapegoat of the people who did this so it doesn’t repeat itself. Next time, it could be my brother or your brother. My child or your child! We can’t let this happen again.
So let’s start a campaign #justiceforaluu4 until the Rivers States government does something about this! Share to Inform Others. Watch the Video Here
According to the survey carried out by condom producer Durex on 29,000 women in 36 countries, Malaysian women came third – 39 per cent admitting they often cheat on their mates, behind Ghana (62 per cent) and Thailand (59 per cent).In fourth and fifth place were Russia (33 per cent) and Singapore (19 per cent) respectively, Star Online reported. Among couples cheating on each other, Malaysia trailed behind South Korea and chart-topper Thailand.
The same survey placed men from Singapore and Hong Kong as being the most promiscuous in Asia, with an average of 16 bed partners in their lifetime.
How do Ghanaians feel about this revelation?
We asked a number of them in the Tri-State area and the general verdict was that of shock and consternation. “That is a preposterous conclusion. What were the yardsticks they used in conducting their poll? How many women did they talk to and what scientific methods did they employ to arrive at such a sweeping verdict?
While not completely absolving our women from indulging in certain shenanigans, I would say we, Ghana women are not the most notorious in that regard. I have friends from other ethnicity who are married, and at the same time keep multiple lovers, and I, happily married to my husband for ten years now, have only strayed once, and why I did that was because we were having problems that appeared intractable at the time. Since my husband and I got back together, I have never cheated on him and don’t intend to.” Lin, who asked that I keep her last name out of print, had told me.
To Kwesi-a business owner in Hartford, Connecticut, such definition serves the women right “It has been a known fact within our community and even in our native country that our women have not been faithful to their husbands. Here in the Diaspora, you can’t tell your wife to keep away from certain associations, she will lash out at you, and tell you to mind your business that she is an adult, and knows how to take care of herself- including knowing when to say no to an amorous overtures. It is so depressing to so defined, I hope they will take or two things from this survey and give respect to their marital status.”
“I think the poll is spot-on” a lady who had pleaded to remain anonymous had told me. “I am not proud to say it; a lot of our married women sleep around. At least among my circle of friends- we have at one point or the other maintained other relationships.
Sometimes, the driving impulse may not even be for material gains, but for the thrill of it. But we are not different from other Africans. I know some Nigerian friends of mine, who are married too, but have lovers outside. I think our men should find the revelation a means to challenge themselves and ask what it is they are doing that is not right. I don’t think a woman will willingly go out there to cheat on her husband if the ‘game’ is tight at home, if you know what I mean”
Armed bandits last Saturday invaded the Omole Estate, Lagos residence of the masked musician, Lagbaja and made way with valuables worth millions of Naira.
Meanwhile, the internet during the week is wash with a purported picture revealing the true identity of the masked musician.
Although, the source of the so-called ‘Lagbaja’s true face’ is yet to be ascertained, there are speculations that the picture was uploaded online by an unknown culprit via omo baba muko-muko’s mobile phone. In fact, since the picture hit the internet, fans of the masked musician have not stopped wondering whether the picture represents the true face of Lagbaja.
However, on the robbery incident, WG gathered that the masked singer was away in Atlanta, USA when the incident happened. The robbers met his family members at home. But no life was lost in the process. The case has since been reported to the police.
Interesting, Read!… Quite a lot of guys have different views about Abuja single babes, especially the rich ones. Some of these rich babes are doing excellently well in their jobs and businesses, in fact some of them live large, own properties and cruise in fleet of cars. Call them big and sophisticated babes and you are not far from it.
However most Abuja guys are not unaware of this and have taken full advantage by dating them. Unfortunately, a lot of these babes have fallen victims of some of these gold diggers and have paid dearly for it.
THE PROMISE OF MARRIAGE
This trick is the main and the common one Abuja guys use in getting rich babes. They realize most ladies that are ripe for marriage are eager to get married at all cost, and that is what they now work on. Some of them that are not even desperate are pressurized by friends and family members, so once they see any guy that keeps talking about marriage, they fall for them and even do all what they can to make the man stay with them.
Some of these guys will tell them what they want to hear, especially issues related to marriage and spending the rest of their lives with them, unknown to the babes, they are just being trapped.
LIVE-IN-LOVER
Another trick they use in getting some of these big and rich babes is by moving in with them. A lot of these guys claim to be in love with them, and the only way they can express the love is by living with them.
Although this trick normally takes time, because its a gradual process, the first thing they do is trying to be nice to the lady, visiting her, at times pay some little bills, like DSTV, lights and other bills, after this step, they upgrade to coming to her house. And before they know what is happening, they have started living together, but don’t forget the lady will still be paying the house rent, feeding him and even paying the bills.
TOO POSSESSIVE!
A lot of these gold diggers are always over possessive, because they won’t want to share the lady with any other man, even when they know they can’t marry her, but just playing with her emotion. In fact, some of them even monitor the ladies movements, listening to their conversations on the phone or even beat them if they suspect any thing.
But some of the babes won’t want to leave the guy no matter the circumstance, they believe if the guy doesn’t love them, he wont be jealous of what she’s doing. So most of them believe that is part of the love the guy has for them, unfortunately, the situation often go out of hands.
TAKE OVER THEIR PROPERTIES AND BUSINESSES
Most of the babes that fall for this trick are the wealthy and older ones, they are always desperate and they don’t mind parting with anything they have once the guy looks serious and ready to settle down. Some of the guys who use this trick are also well to do, although they live on women and they spoil the ladies silly before they eventually strike.
LIVING OFF THEM
Most guys collect money from babes in one way or the other, but these days, almost all the guys that engages in running after rich single babes for their money now ask them directly. They believe the babes are richer and because they can’t marry their money, they will want to do anything they can to get a man to marry them, not even mind if he the love is genuine or not. This trick is very common and most babes still fall victim of it.
Some guys even collect money from these rich babes and spend it on some younger babes, which they will eventually get married to. A lot of them also trick them with joint account, life insurance and all kinds of things, just to fleece them of their money.
INTRODUCTION TO FAKE FAMILY MEMBERS
This is the new and the latest trick in Abuja right now. Ever since some of the guys realized a lot of girls are getting use to their old old tricks, they decided to start some new tactics. Since they know that most girls always love to meet one or two of their relatives, they now introduce them to some friends claiming to be their family members, some of them actually introduce them to their siblings, and ask them to be demanding money or material things from the babes.
And since the lady also believes she will soon be married into the family, will want to satisfy them, and will even go out of her way to please them. But most guys always introduce them to fake family member, so that by the time they are through with them, they won’t be able to trace them. It’s so bad to the extent that some of these babes even accommodate the family members.
FALSE CLAIMS
Almost all the guys that engage in tricks that has been earlier stated don’t have jobs, they are always jobless and they live on women, but majority of them claim to be contractors. Obviously any young babe that meets a single guy who is a contractor would think, the guy is rich and he wont have to wait for any salary before he can pay his bills, and since they know that most babes love to be deceived, they tell them sweet things they will love to hear.
But after some time, they will come up with a story on how the federal government owes them some millions and once they get the money, they will get their own apartment, buy new cars and even spoil the lady silly. The babes will believe them, and she will start spending all her money to maintain the relationship, thinking the guy will reciprocate some day.
SEPARATION FROM FAMILY & FRIENDS
They claim they don’t like 3rd party in their relationship, so the lady must stop hanging out with her friends and families, if she really wants to settle down with him. This is another tactics that is used on most single and rich babes in Abuja right now.
The guys try to disassociate the babes from talking or sharing her experience with friends and families, they also try as much as possible to keep an eye on the babes, at times they don’t allow them to go out alone, or attend family functions so that they won’t brainwash them.
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Even as men of the Rivers State police command begin a manhunt of the mob that beat four male students: Ugonna, Lloyd, Tekana and Chidiaka of the University of Port Harcourt (Uniport) on Friday morning and later set them ablaze, after putting car tyres on their necks, for allegedly stealing mobile phones and laptops.
Residents of the community have started fleeing to avoid indiscriminate arrest by policemen, especially of innocent persons.The incident which occurred at Aluu community,beside UNIPORT, where most of the students who could not secure accommodation on the campus reside.
want to enjoin everyone of you reader of mercyjohnson.com , lovers of Justice and Nigerian Youths with a conscience to join the fight to bring the perpetrators of this dastardly and barbaric act to justice. Watch the Video Here !
He is well-to-do, a top Senior Manager at the Pipelines and Products Marketing Company (PPMC), a subsidiary of the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC).
He can afford to buy any type of telephone handset or laptop for any of his four sons. But this morning when Onyema Biringa (shown in photo), who is based in Port Harcourt, capital of Rivers State in South-South Nigeria, woke up, it was to prepare for the burial of his first son, Chiadikobi, who was lynched few days ago by a mob for allegedly stealing handsets and laptops.
The bereaved father, who alongside his family still reeling from shock, is seeking divine intervention over the cruel fate that has befallen his beloved son. “I have handed over the murderers to God,” he told a relative last night.
News Express reports that Chiadikobi and two other students of the University of Port Harcourt (UNIPORT) believed to be his friends were forcibly seized by a mob at Allu, an off campus suburb where they lived, paraded unclad, mercilessly beaten to death despite passionate pleas, had their necks bedecked with used tyres preparatory to being set ablaze.
The only one to be identified, Chiadikobi’s body has been taken to his hometown, Umungwa, Obowo, in neighbouring Imo State, for burial today.
Outrage has greeted his murder and that of the other victims of the jungle justice. Writing on Facebook, one of his relatives, Okonkwo Queen, said: My eyes are filled with tears. My dear brother may your soul rest in peace.”
As you might guess, I wore the best dress in my wardrobe for MTN Project Fame closing gala. I did this for two reasons: prince charming to be (hopefully) would see me and gawk. Secondly, since the who is who in Nigeria will be there I might as well put my best "Cinderella" foot forward.
So later, I found my way to the Lekki Studio for the finale. And I was amazed at the heavy crowd I saw. Lemme confess: Nigerians sabi dress sha and errrm some people need styling lessons (good thing Joan Rivers is not a Nigerian).The excited crowd as well as myself were entertained with tasty finger foods (or you don't know what that is?) and chilled chapman. Shortly after, with what seemed like a roll call, we were all summoned inside. The show was about to start.
As I stepped into the studio, my heart beat accelerated in unimaginable speed. Was I nervous or was I afraid prince charming to-be might not win? Guess all of the above is the answer to that.
The show started with Adora and Joseph looking like a couple ready to walk down the aisle, the studio and crew members set. Then Chidinma welcomed us. Styl Plus made us dance (I particularly couldn't sit until
they stopped singing). Mr Flavour nko? That was the point when the whole crowd went gaga. Yes. All. No exception. Including MTN officials. The judges. And the Faculty.
After that the remaining 7 contestants came out in their finest,( I could only imagine what was going through their head…. Meennn! I no wan dey in their shoes at that time). Expectedly, they looked beautiful. Their styling as usual was on point. I liked the Liberian Princess' (Musulyn) costume best.
So they performed their own songs. One thing is for sure. Most of the songs will become hits as soon as they hit the airwaves. Is a lie? (Wait nau, you'll see it's a true).
Then came the moment we all waited for. They announced the contestants with the least votes; sadly Oyinkansade was the first to go, followed by Musulyn, then Christian respectively. At this point, I heaved a sigh of relief and said in my heart"even if my contestant doesn't win, I'm certain he would go home with..."
Just then Adora's voice interrupted my thoughts "3rd runner up is Ella. Second runner up is Adetoun". The crowd cheered and made some indescribable giggling sounds. I looked up with trembling hands "Lord
pls. at this point, let him win ". See me see prayer that night ehn?
The show started with Adora and Joseph looking like a couple ready to walk down the aisle, the studio and crew members set. Then Chidinma welcomed us. Styl Plus made us dance (I particularly couldn't sit until
they stopped singing). Mr Flavour nko? That was the point when the whole crowd went gaga. Yes. All. No exception. Including MTN officials. The judges. And the Faculty.
After that the remaining 7 contestants came out in their finest,( I could only imagine what was going through their head…. Meennn! I no wan dey in their shoes at that time). Expectedly, they looked beautiful. Their styling as usual was on point. I liked the Liberian Princess' (Musulyn) costume best.
So they performed their own songs. One thing is for sure. Most of the songs will become hits as soon as they hit the airwaves. Is a lie? (Wait nau, you'll see it's a true).
Then came the moment we all waited for. They announced the contestants with the least votes; sadly Oyinkansade was the first to go, followed by Musulyn, then Christian respectively. At this point, I heaved a sigh of relief and said in my heart"even if my contestant doesn't win, I'm certain he would go home with..."
Just then Adora's voice interrupted my thoughts "3rd runner up is Ella. Second runner up is Adetoun". The crowd cheered and made some indescribable giggling sounds. I looked up with trembling hands "Lord
pls. at this point, let him win ". See me see prayer that night ehn?
When I could no longer take the tension anymore, I closed my eyes and covered my ear drums ( oh yes, my hands went that far into my eager ears), I was scared for him. A minute later I opened my eyes and there
he was on the stage literally rolling.
He won. He won. I jumped and screamed . I couldn't believe my eyes. Now I know a lot of you guys think my crush was Marvellous. Well, I'll have to disappoint you. My darling contestant was Ayobami and guess
what? HE WON. (Yes. I voted like that, wink wink. giggles).
The sad thing though was, I tried to get close to him after the announcements but the bouncers wouldn't let me. Plus, all the girls in the studio were drooling all around him all of a sudden. "Ahh, chicken heads and groupies, leave my heartthrob alone oooo"!!! I made attempts but I couldn't get past the crowd. You know, he's not just a contestant anymore; he's now a star, N2.5 million richer and a Rav 4 owner. Dunno if this is a blessing to me or not.
Anyways, he looked over-joyed and I was more than happy to see him. We didn't talk that night, maybe we will in future, but he was my crush and I still like him. *blush blush, wink, wink..giggles*.
he was on the stage literally rolling.
He won. He won. I jumped and screamed . I couldn't believe my eyes. Now I know a lot of you guys think my crush was Marvellous. Well, I'll have to disappoint you. My darling contestant was Ayobami and guess
what? HE WON. (Yes. I voted like that, wink wink. giggles).
The sad thing though was, I tried to get close to him after the announcements but the bouncers wouldn't let me. Plus, all the girls in the studio were drooling all around him all of a sudden. "Ahh, chicken heads and groupies, leave my heartthrob alone oooo"!!! I made attempts but I couldn't get past the crowd. You know, he's not just a contestant anymore; he's now a star, N2.5 million richer and a Rav 4 owner. Dunno if this is a blessing to me or not.
Anyways, he looked over-joyed and I was more than happy to see him. We didn't talk that night, maybe we will in future, but he was my crush and I still like him. *blush blush, wink, wink..giggles*.
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